Expose your ideal personality
We meet various people in our daily life, whether in our personal life or in professional life or in any other events. So, the ways of introducing will vary from place to place, that introducing in a ceremony are different from introducing in a work place. But we especially younger are very unconcerned when we introduce with someone. Even, we do not know how to start a proper conversation with someone. Moreover, we do many incautious acts. But, the importance of first impressions is much more because it creates an image about yourself in front of the new person. So, here are some things which you should never do in the first introduce.
Do not be late: Being punctual in every case is a very important virtue. Be present within the time at the rendezvous. Do not be late. It will make a bad impression about you at the very first time.
Do not start conversation without greetings: Many of us are very uncomfortable about how to start conversation with new person. You must start a conversation with other by greetings him/her. If he is a man, offer a handshake, and if she is a girl, simply say to her hi/hello.
Do not show off what you are not: Many of us feel very contented in showing off about himself/herself. That is why they say a lot of extempore words while introducing. Do not do such thing in front of the new people. Rather, find match between you and talk civilly.
Do not move your body rudely: The movement of body or body language is very important at every situation. While you introduce yourself, be careful about your body movement. Do not talk by moving your hands. Do not vacillate your legs. Do not lough pointlessly. Make eye contact.
Do not be more talkative: There are so many people who talk too much. But remember that, do not much talk in the first introduce. If you talk much, the other will be very bored. He/she will try to escape from yourself. Further, do not be more silent. Speak naturally. It is a helpful way in the importance of first impressions.
Do not ask more questions: To continue the conversation, you can discuss about some common matter. Besides, you can ask some necessary questions in the first introduce to find match with him/her. But mind it, never ask unnecessary and inconsistent questions.
Do not be melancholic: A smiling face is more times beautiful. So, do not color your face with depression and melancholy. If you make your face sad in the first introduce, the other will not show interest to continue the conversation.
Do not be engaged in mobile phone: Now almost all of us have a mobile phone. This device is essentially associated in our daily life. Almost always we are connected and affixed with it. So, it is seen that we cannot take a look from it even at the important times. But, you have to mind it that, if you are engaged in mobile phone when you are talking to someone, it will have a bad impression on you.
Do not smoke: Many of us have the bad habit of smoking. Although you smoke, do not smoke in front of the new person at the first introduce. You should ask first him/her, if you find match then you can do smoke.
So, there are some points which you should not do while introducing someone. It is very substantial to keep these things in mind, because the importance of first impression plays the vital role in building up a relationship. If you maintain these in the first introduce, you can expose your ideal personality/ smartness to the new person.
Department of English, University of Chittagong