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Monday, April 6, 2015, Chaitra 23, 1421 BS, Jamadius Sani 15, 1436 Hijr


Sharing Problems
Letter to Tazin Ahmed
Dear Tazin Apu
Published : Monday, 6 April, 2015,  Time : 12:00 AM,  View Count : 38

I am a 3rd year medical student living in hostel. From the 1st day of my medical life, I am a close friend of a boy. But I have a stable boyfriend for the last 7 years and my friend has a stable girlfriend for the last 4 years. But recently his girlfriend tried to commit suicide; and the cause is our friendship. I don't know why even my friend's parents don't like me. They are accusing me why I am his reading partner, why I am always with him, why people found me outside of boys' hostel waiting for him etc. But the worst accuse is why we were reading in a locked room. That day I was in my friend's home in Dhaka, and even his parents were present at home. But my boyfriend is on my side. Now his girlfriend is okay. When I asked my friend about his girlfriend, he slapped me in the hostel canteen in front of others, as if I am the faultier. What can I do now to make everything normal like before? Help me.   

Reply
I want to suggest you for a safe friendship. When it is a matter of friendship, gender discrimination should not be counted. But no one should show any activities which can mess the relationship. You need to be positive always. Take some time. I think your friend will realize what fault he has done and then obviously he will come to you with his girlfriend. If he doesn't come, it will mean a gap has been created which both of you are unaware. Try to find out the gap between you and solve it accordingly. 







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